Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Sunday

Don't forget we are joining the Pilot Point Church of Christ for worship this Sunday Morning, and a fellowship meal to follow!

We will meet at my house at 9:15am and caravan up to the east side of Denton...unless you want to go up yourselves, and if so, click HERE to go to their website (created by the Peripetee Creative Resource Group!) which has a map!

I am headed to Chicago with Kara and Taylor for the next three days (Kara's graduation present!), so I will see you Sunday!

Grace and Peace,
Ryan

Sunday, May 30, 2010

Ministry


I was reading a new book this week entitled 'Earthy Mysticism' by Tex Sample. In it he describes his 'choice to pursue a ministry career' in a unique way.


"I absolutely hated the idea of doing such a thing. The very thought that I would have to go through life as some sanctimonious mouther of platitudes drove me crazy. That I would have to tell people things they already knew and fill their ears with a bunch of musts, oughts and shoulds was about as exciting as standing on a corner telling people they ought to look both ways before crossing the street. I later learned, however, that the call to go into ministry is a lot like throwing up. You can put it off for a while, but there comes a time when you have to do it."


This past year I have learned many things about myself. The first and foremost of these lessons is that I am not drawn into ministry for a paycheck or even for more altruistic reasons, but as a call from God. I love people, and I love befriending people and showing them the love of Christ. I am also loud, showy, sometimes downright obnoxious. My quote that has kept Greg Needels chuckling all week was this: "The sad reality is, I'm just not even a very nice person." I could go on and on about the things I can't do or don't do well. But for all my foibles, God has granted me a welcoming heart and a love for His people that transcends where they have been or what they have done. I really do not remember people's lowest moments.


The factor that ties all this together is the book I quoted from above. Actually, it is the bookshop from which the book came. Connections bookstore has resided on Forest Park Blvd in Ft. Worth for almost 30 years. Its current owner, a gal named Peggy, is a retired librarian who has never owned a computer or cell phone. But she knows books. And specifically, she knows religious books. For the couple of years we lived on Forest Park, I frequented Connections and got to know Peggy well. We would have deep theological discussions, share about our lives (her friend Jenny also worked in the store until she had to take care of her invalid husband) and shared wonderful times together.


I haven't been in Connections for years, but this past Thursday, Jonathan and I went to the Colonial Golf Tournament in Fort Worth. We passed Connections, and I saw a 'Sale-Going Out of Business' sign in the window. So, after the temperature became unbearable, we left the golf tournament and headed over to Connections. I was very surprised to realize that after not having been there for nearly ten years, Peggy still remembered me. And our 'deep theological discussions' as she termed it; and our common love for Madeleine L'Engle. I reminded her that she was the first to introduce me to the wonderful Catholic writer Edward Hays, and Jonathan and I looked together at Henri Nouwen books we both love.


I was reminded of the good things that can happen when people love God, His words, and sharing life together. That a shopkeeper is not only a shopkeeper, but can be the voice of God in your life. That no interaction is unimportant - we must be aware of our each of them, as the writer of Hebrews points out in Chapter 13, verse 2: "Don't forget to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have done this have entertained angels without realizing it!"

Thursday, May 6, 2010

First Importance

In the beginning of I Corinthians 15, after alternately ranting at the Corinthians and defending his honor for many chapters, Paul switches gears. He wants to remind them, he says, of the gospel which is their salvation. This prompts him to say in V. 3: 'For what I received I passed on to you as of FIRST importance.' He then goes on to detail the facts regarding the death, burial and resurrection of Christ.

But those words: 'first importance' they keep ringing in my head. If a teacher tells you something is of first importance for an upcoming test, what will you do? Of course, you will focus on those subjects above other areas.

Is it possible, then, that certain scriptures or commandments or statutes or principles carry more weight than others? Is that why John tells us in the 20th chapter of his gospel...that Jesus did many other signs and wonders than are recorded in his gospel, but that he wrote these particular stories down 'so that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the son of the Living God, and that by believing you may have life in his name.' Does that mean that those other stories or signs or wonders are of no account? Certainly not, but John has chosen those which, by the prompting of the Spirit, seem to be the most convicting...

Read Matthew 22:34-40...what do you think Jesus is trying to say here? And what does it mean for how we study the rest of scripture?


Upcoming Calendar!

Gibbons House Church Spring 2010...


* Mother’s Day, Sunday, May 9th

-- We will meet at the Elliott’s on this day at 10:30am, and there will be no common meal, so that we can enjoy some family time.


* Sunday, May 23rd

-- We will be heading to the Greenville Oaks Church of Christ to help them care for their kids during ‘Vision Sunday’. We will meet to leave at the Gibbons at 9am...all hands will be needed this day. They need 30+ folks in order to take care of the number of children they have and are counting on us...so WE NEED YOU!


* Sunday, June 6th

-- We have been invited to join the Pilot Point Church of Christ, just outside of Denton for worship and dinner on the grounds down on the lake. We will meet to leave at 9:30am at the Gibbons, and be back around 5pm. Each family needs to bring a covered dish to share...


* Friday, June 18th - Saturday, June 26th

-- AXIS trip to Colorado. We will leave at 8am, Friday morning the 18th and head to see our friends the MacKenzie’s in Colorado Springs, for a couple of days. On Sunday we will head over to Vail, Colorado and spend some time with the Trappist Monks at Snowmass as well as enjoy the beautiful scenery of the Rocky Mountains.


A MINISTRY INTERN!

-- JP and I have an intern coming this Summer named Megan MacKenzie. She is currently a student at York College in Nebraska, and is the daughter of some of Amy and I’s oldest friends in ministry. In addition to her work with Peripetee, we are allotting a certain number of her hours each week to help with house church. Megan is a very capable gal who has a heart for ministry and people. More info to follow on her specific duties...


Sunday, May 2, 2010

Studying the Bible Wisely

So, I think the question for me has to become...how can I study the Bible wisely and profitably? For a long time in my life, I have read the Bible because it tells me about God, and because it teaches me how to live.

But, as we have studied more deeply the scriptures, things seem more complex to me. I realize that even when Jesus is teaching or speaking, things seem murkier at then end of his talk than at the beginning. And I have known for a long time that many, many conscientious followers of Jesus disagree about certain passages of scripture and what they mean for our lives. (Consider I Corinthians 14)

So, I have gone back to the basic building blocks to understand what role scripture needs to play in my life. I am considering two questions: 1) How should I read the Bible and what role should the Bible play in my life?

For the next few weeks at House Church I am going to us some materials to prod our thinking in this direction...for those of you who are readers, you may want to access these materials:
* Reading the Bible Wisely, by Richard Briggs
* How to Read the Bible for All Its Worth, Gordon Fee and Douglas Stuart
* Word Pictures, Brian Godawa

I believe we will profit from challenging one another to consider the role God's word should play in our lives...

Sunday, April 11, 2010

The Burning Question

Most of you do not sit around reading Bible Commentaries...I know this. However, if you have spent any time teaching the Bible to people you may have spent some time comparing commentaries...it is an occupational hazard to those of us who teach the Bible 'professionally.' And the choice of a good commentary series is very important, because the price tag for such a set is typically very high. A few years ago, a 'new' series came out that quickly became my favorite. It is called the Ancient Christian Commentary on Scripture Series, and features the writings of Augustine, John Chrysostom, Gregory of Nyssa, Athanasius and many other writers from the first few centuries of Christian thought which have been collected in these volumes.

There is something I find very comforting about hearing from these writers, who were so much closer historically to the time of Christ. Somehow I can't get as excited about someone's perspective from my own generation. Because most of these writers only left scraps of writing behind, the editors of this commentary series have grouped their writing by chapter and verse, which offers an excellent overview from a variety of early scholars.

One of the things I find most interesting from our recent discussions is this...I Corinthians 14, which today would be viewed as a much more controversial chapter than I Corinthians 15 is left virtually untouched. While the early Fathers offer almost no commentary on I Corinthians 14, they go to voluminous lengths in discussing I Corinthians 15. While we might file the questions addressed in this chapter under that deep theological category of 'I Don't Know', these early scholars go to great lengths to discuss such things as...what version of ourselves will be resurrected? Will we be 'with' our spouses when we are resurrected? What is the difference between our physical bodies and our spiritual bodies (v. 44)? How long is the twinkling of an eye (v. 52)?

Things that we might simply throw up our hands and say 'I don't know' to, Paul and the early Church Fathers spend lots of time addressing. So instead of throwing up our hands, lets spend some time looking through their eyes...why might this have been so important to them? Why spend so much time discussing things which seem to be so minute? See you next Sunday as we ramp up toward the end of I Corinthians...

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

A Quote from St. Augustine


OK, so I thought I would put the quote out there that seemed to capture everyone's attention this past Sunday...

"Those who make dissensions and disturbances in the church are the ones who seem to be what they are not." -- St. Augustine

Prophecy, Interpretation, Tongues?

OK, so before our discussion on Sunday, you might want to read Acts chapter 2, especially the first 13 verses, and consider...

* What was the power of hearing the words in their native tongue?
* Why didn't God pull out this particular stunt again in the course of the New Testament narrative?

Then, go over to I Corinthians 14, and consider verse 18...what is Paul trying to say here?
* Look at verse 28 - is interpretation necessary? If there is not an interpreter, what should the speaker do? Why?

Then look at verses 29-33...how is prophecy different than what we typically call preaching?

Friday, March 26, 2010

Awakening



In those days,
we finally chose to walk like giants
& hold the world
in arms grown strong
with love

& there may be
many things we forget
in the days to come,

but this
will not be
one of them.
- Brian Andreas

As I was trying to look ahead in regard to our house church, I looked around the room at folks who have a lot on their plates right now. Facing grave illnesses to themselves or close family members, starting new seasons in their lives, beginning jobs or looking for jobs, seeking healing and wholeness of mind and body, dealing with nests that are rapidly emptying. It seems as if perhaps this is a time to remember to hold on tightly to one another with arms grown strong through loving embrace.

Grace and Peace
Ryan

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Book Club Schedule



For my regular book club people and others who might want to join us (you are ALWAYS welcome!), here is our upcoming schedule...

Because several have read Donald Miller's Book, A Million Miles in a Thousand Years, we will look at that coming up on March 30th, April 6th and April 13th. I think it is a wonderful book, and I know several have ready it on their own!!

We will then take a one week break and pick up with a new book entitled The Year of Living Like Jesus ISBN: 0310247772. The author, Ed Dobson, is a pastor has been diagnosed with ALS and been given 2-5 years to live. He decides to embark on a year long quest to truly live like Jesus. His book is a memoir that chronicles that year. You can check out more about Ed Dobson here...


We will pick that book up on April 27th...we meet at 6:30pm and would welcome one and all...

Monday, March 22, 2010

Writing has been scarce



Sorry that my blog posts have been few and far between lately...God and I are doing a lot of business, and a lot of things have been running through my head. But they haven't necessarily been things I was ready to put down on 'paper'. Let me say that I love being with this group of people, and I thought Sunday in particular was a deeply enriching day...

I will have more things to say in the coming days, but for now, let me say...you are much loved!

Sunday, March 21, 2010

A Possible Retreat



So I am thinking about having a planning retreat May 14-16th...how many folks would be available?

Friday, March 12, 2010

Waiting??



So, I was thinking this week (happens occasionally, no matter what Earl tells ya!) :-)

Jeremy was reading from I Corinthians 11 before Communion and asked us all to wait to eat the common meal until we all had our food. Wouldn't you know that people were sneaking bites and hollering to find out if everyone was through the line (oh, wait, that was me!). That scripture came alive for me this week!

I have begun to look at spiritual practices very seriously and try to decipher which ones really do benefit my spiritual life...and coming to some interesting conclusions!

This week at mentoring group Micah introduced Jonathan and I to a new spiritual practice called 'A Church of Two.' I will introduce all of you to it this Sunday! I hope it will be beneficial...but be ready, it calls for you to share!

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Some Thoughts on Spiritual Practices



-- Read Genesis 28:10-22


Like Jacob...“We wanted more. We wanted a deeper sense of purpose. We wanted a stronger sense of God’s presence. We wanted more reliable ways both to seek and to stay in that presence -- not for an hour on Sunday morning or Wednesday afternoon but for as much time as we could stand.


And yet the only way most of us knew to get that was to spend more time in church. So we volun- teered more, dreamed up more programs, invited more people to more classes where we could read more books. The minute we walked back to our cars, many of us could feel the same old gnawing inside. Once we left church, we were not sure what to do any more. We knew some things we could do to feel close to God inside the church, but after we stepped into the parking lot we lost that intimacy. The boundaries were not so clear out there. Community was not so easy to find. Without Tiffany windows tinting them blue, people looked pretty much the same. From the parking lot they looked as ordinary as everything else. The only more out there was more of the same.


That, at least, is how it looked to those of us who had forgotten that the whole world is the house of God. Somewhere along the line we bought -- or were sold -- the idea that God is chiefly interested in religion. We believed that God’s home was the church, that God’s people knew who they were, and that the world was a barren place full of lost souls in need of all the help they could get. Plenty of us seized on those ideas because they offered us meaning. Believing them gave us purpose and worth. They gave us something noble to do in the midst of lives that might otherwise be invisible. Plus, there really are large swaths of the world filled with people in deep need of saving.

The problem is, many of the people in need of saving are in churches, and at least part of what they need saving from is the idea that God sees the world the same way they do. Like Jacob, people seem willing to look all over for this treasure box marked ‘GOD’. They will spend hours launching prayers into the heavens. They will travel halfway around the world to visit a Monastery in India or to take part in a mission trip to Belize. The last place most people look is right under their feet, in the everyday activities, accidents and encounters of their lives.


No one longs for what he or she already has, and yet the accumulated insight of those wise about the spiritual life suggests that the reason so many of us cannot see the red X that marks the spot is because we are standing on it. The treasure we seek requires no lengthy expedition, no expensive equipment, no superior aptitude or special company. All we lack is the willingness to imagine that we already have everything we need. The only thing missing is our consent to be where we are. Many years ago now,a wise old priest invited me to come speak at his church in Alabama. ‘What do you want me talk about?’


‘Come tell us what is saving your life right now,’ he answered. It was if he had swept his arm across a dusty table and brushed all the formal china to the ground. I did not have to try to say correct things that were true for everyone. I did not have to use theological language that conformed to the historical teachings of the church. All I had to do was figure out what my life depended on.” -- from An Altar in the World, by Barbara Brown Taylor.


Based on the following texts, what do you think the spiritual practices that sustain our life in community should be?

-- Micah 6:6-8 -- Matthew 22:34-40

Five Crucial Questions



One of the difficult things whenever you are charting new ground is to free yourself from the bonds of where you have been before. What I mean is, when you are considering launching a new kind of Church, the first thing you reach for are the forms of Church to which you are most accustomed.

Therefore it is very difficult to have a discussion that is fresh because we our lenses are always colored by those forms we know. Some we like and some we don't. This can sometimes lead us to ask the wrong questions, sending us down the wrong road entirely.

In an effort to ask the right questions, here are five that seem important to me at this moment. Don't answer immediately. Take some time to be in prayer. If you think of another question, add a comment so people can be thinking about those questions, as well.

* What spiritual practices will drive Our community?

* What will be the goals of our community?

* By what measurement(s) will we define success?

* How important is being ‘successful’ in fulfilling our goals and aspirations?

* What leadership model(s) will the community adopt?




Monday, February 15, 2010

Timing



Timing is a difficult thing. You can say or do something one day that is a total flop, but you might try the same thing a little later, and it works perfectly. I think often that is a question of timing - ours vs. God's.

When I was fired last April 3oth, I thought the timing was all wrong (not that I wanted to get fired at all!). Lily had one year left before going to school all day, and Amy desperately wanted to spend much of that time with her (instead she is working all day!). I was hoping for Nathan to be able to finish out his time at PRCA, since he was going into 5th grade and PRCA ends after 6th grade (that's still up in the air). I had been looking for an opportunity to do something different for some time (but no doors opened up to us) - it felt like I was cut adrift when I received that letter saying I was terminated. No clear path, unsure what to do or where to go.

And yet, looking back, God seems to be ordering all things. The last months have flown by as we have sought the Lord and experimented with what it means to live in true community, and to collectively study the word of God deeply. We had a very successful retreat in January, a great time of togetherness and seeking God's will in which so many took a leadership role in one way or another. We had a wonderful coffee shop concert in North Arlington that drew in a lot of people.

Now, as we continue to heal, I am starting to hear different things from different people. Some are ready to 'move on' and 'find a path'. Some think we should find a bigger facility. Some are scared to 'lose' the community that God has forged over the past few months if we were to grow too large.

Let's do this...let's continue to ask the Lord what HE would have us do. Rather than coming up with great plans on our own, let's seek the Lord and be silent before Him. Where would He have us go? Where can we join Him in the kingdom work he is already blessing? What might God say to us through an apostle like Paul - for good and bad? Most of all, let's be patient as we seek His face. I believe He will make Himself known to us when the time is right!

Think about these words God spoke to Solomon in I Chronicles 28:

9 "And you, my son Solomon, acknowledge the God of your father, and serve him with wholehearted devotion and with a willing mind, for the LORD searches every heart and understands every motive behind the thoughts. If you seek him, he will be found by you; but if you forsake him, he will reject you forever. 10 Consider now, for the LORD has chosen you to build a temple as a sanctuary. Be strong and do the work."


Saturday, February 13, 2010

THANKS!

Thanks to:

1. Bill Akins
2. Connie Bingham (and Earl!)
3. DeeDee
4. Jamie Williams
5. Anne Stovall
6. JP
7. Micah Lewis
8. Casey Brown
9. Amy Gibbons

This is the order my posts were answered this week. I will be passing out free gifts this Sunday at House Church...Micah, I'll get you back when we have lunch...also, you and I are in charge of the next mentoring group as Grady will be in Africa!

I appreciate you chiming in, as I have no other real way to know if what I am communicating is effective or not. Thanks too, for your kind comments - we are so pleased to open our homes, Bill, and so proud to be journeying together with such a fine group of believers. It renews my faith in God to be with you all!

Grace and Peace
Ryan

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Just a check to see if anyone is listening



OK, so this is a test - only a test. A test of: 'is anyone actually paying attention to this blog'?

So, make a comment, and receive a gift, it is that simple. Your comment can be, I want my free gift! That's OK! Even if you don't want or need a gift, put a comment down under this post, please.

Language of the Ordinary



LANGUAGE OF THE ORDINARY
-- Laura Bardwell

Spirit, come;
sit at my soul's table.
Eat bread, drink wine.
Speak the language of the ordinary
broken in grace.

Come, and will you tell me the story of my faith?
Tell me again what it could become.
Open wide the doors of houses it might build
With your steady craftsman's skill.

Then go, visit others,
upturn the telling of their tales.

But leave an imprint of your visit
on this chair, the handle of the jug,
the cloth's stain.
Give at least the memory of your breath
to the smoke of candles spent
here at the edges of this room.

Monday, February 8, 2010

Scripture for this Sunday



Sunday we will be going through a number of Paul's letters, and it would be good if everyone could take a moment to read through them ahead of time. Take some time and jot down the similarities and differences between these passages. Here are the scriptures:

* I Corinthians 3:1-4:5
* Ephesians 4:1-7
* Ephesians 5:1-21
* Philippians 2:1-11
* Philippians 4:2-9
* Colossians 2:6-15
* I Thessalonians 4:1-12
* I Timothy 5:1-6
* Titus 3:1-11

Hope this finds everyone well!